kindness knows no man

So, today let us speak out about kindness. I’m not a kind one but I want to speak about that. For me kindness knows no man so try to be as kind as you can. When I gathered with my friends, they always say “I’m not beautiful”, seriously ladies like to talk about beauty. Women and beauty can’t be separated. My lovely friend says that we look very beautiful when we have a spiritual beauty. When I was a immature girl I think about what is spiritual beauty. My mum teach me that spiritual beauty you can’t pay to have that it will be in yourselves without you know you get it. That’s really wonderful!!! See, everything has planned strategically by our creator. So, even you have no money to go spa, you still beautiful. Wondering where did you get it??? That is reward for you for being kind to everyone. A bit of fragrance always clings to the hand that gives roses. Everyone loves fragrance, so keep gives “roses” then you will get that naturally.

If you do not know what kind of kindness you should do, our beloved Prophet Muhammad told us “do not belittle even the smallest act of kindness, even if it were no more than meeting your brother with a smiling and cheerful face”. Our prophet (peace be upon him) really loves us, he even teach us the smallest act of kindness. Smiling and cheerful face is a kindness, Islam is a simple religion and it is not complicated.  Be grateful for being born as Muslims. Back to our topic, kindness, I strongly agree if one can pay back the loan of gold, but ones dies forever in debt to those who are kind. Be kind to others and you will be rewarded by Allah.

“....O Allah’s Messenger! Is there a reward for us in serving the animals?” He said, “yes, there is a reward for serving any animate (living being).” Narrated by Al-Bukhari and Muslim. Living in hostel, there is cat dumping and I’m not satisfied with this situation. Based on this hadith, I need to be kind to animals. To render relief to the distressed and to help the oppressed make amends for great sins. Let us be kind to all people.

KINDNESS IN WORDS CREATES CONFIDENCE,

KINDNESS IN THINKING CREATES PROFOUNDNESS,

KINDNESS IN GIVING CREATES LOVE.

respect others

Today I get mad with someone. Actually I myself, do not know why I get mad with that person. For sure, I’m mad!!! Ok, today I would like to write about respect. Wow, this word sound great to me! Are you expecting other to respect you? You might have your own answer because I have mine too. I really mad to people who do not respect others if the other are trying their best to respect them. Could you imagine how are you felt if someone did that to you? I know patience is the best way but I’m a normal one so my patience’s level has its own level. I wish I could have a very high level of patience. Seriously, I’m really mad with this person. Are crazy enough to do that thing to me????? Answer me!!!! Do you know how hard I’m trying to care of your feeling? It’s really hard until I get fed up, but I still remember the friendship that we build in the name of Allah. That’s why I’m still going strong until today. People out there, remember to respect others even you do not know who are they. Allah has promised to reward His servant if they do good dead. Respect others seem to be a very hard thing to apply in your life but it really easy to do and it will help your life going peacefully, trust me. Since I am living in hostel, there are lots of things related to respect others. If I think about having something that might cause somebody so I need to think twice. See, it is difficult but if you are in that condition you will think what will happen to you if others do that to you. So, it is simple when you think if you are in that situation.  Are you mad? Are you happy? Are you sad? Or are you angry? Think before you do something. You might think they are kind-hearted so don’t worry. Think twice because you might hurt their feelings and you do not know. Other’s feelings are really important. As student, you know what you should do. Relationship with our Creator and relationship among people are really need to care of. Think and you will know are you respected others?????

talk to my hand

sorry.....

Caller     : Hello, can I speak to Annie Wan?

Operator: Yes, you can speak to me.

Caller     : No, I want to speak to Annie Wan!

Operator: Yes, I understand you want to speak to anyone. You can speak to me.Who is this?

Caller     : I’m Sam Wan. And I need to talk to Annie Wan! It’s urgent.

Operator: I know you are someone, and you want to talk to anyone! But what’s the urgent matter about?

Caller     : Well...just tell my sister Annie Wan that our brother Noe Wan was involved in an accident. Noe Wan got injured, and now Noe Wan is being sent to the hospital. Right now, Avery Wan is on his way to the hospital.

Operator: Look, if no one was injured and no one was sent to the hospital, then the accident isn’t an urgent matter! You may find this hilarious, but I don’t have time for this!

Caller     : You are so rude! Who are you?

Operator: I’m Saw Ree.

Caller     : Yes! You should be sorry. Now give me your name!

Operator: That’s what I said. I’m Saw Ree.....

Caller     : Oh...God!!!

i have found this in a wonderful book which i borrowed from my friend. hope you all enjoy read this.

smile always!!!!

 

tip & trick

hari nie saya baca buku "remaja" milik salah seorang teman saya. macam-macam yang saya dapat tahu, kalu anda baca pasti teruja dengan ilmu baru yang diperolehi secara tak sengaja. Ada bahagian yang menceritakan tentang kampus. yang menarik perhatian saya adalah persoalan "adakah hanya buku, pendrive, dan alat tulis sahaja yang pelu dibawa ke kampus?" Dalam majalah tu, ada bagi senarai barang yang perlu kita bawa ke kuliah, antaranya adalah tisu. sebenar, tisu ni amat penting bagi saya sendiri kerana tangan saya asyik berpeluh. kalau kene buat presentation tu makin banyak saya pegang tisu, tak tahu kenapa.....perangai kot. Ana selalu pesan, "don't forget your tissue.....". hehehe. asyik kena pesan je. bukan lupa tapi kalau kelam-kabut tue, selipar pon boleh terpakai untuk ke kelas. Tisu ni sebenarnya banyak kegunaannya, kadang-kadang tue sesuatu yang kamu sendiri tak jangka. Contohnya, air tertumpah atas meja, terluka tapi lupa bawak pembalut atau mungkin nak lap lebihan mekap. betul tak???? Orang perempuan kan memang

cerewet. semua nak sempurna, untuk senangkan kerja bawa tisu ke mana-mana, bukan hanya ke kelas. biasanya tandas di kapus tiada menyediakan tisu tandas, jadi kamu masih boleh mengantikan tisu tandas dengan tisu poket kamu. tak salah kan?? untuk membawa tisu ke kuliah, agak susah bagi sesiapa yang tak mempunyai bekalan tisu. Apa salahnya kalau beli dua paket tisu apabila anda keluar untuk membeli barang keperluan. Tisu adalah salah satu barang wajib apabila saya membeli barang keperluan...cuba bandingkan harga jika anda membeli setiap hari satu paket kecil berbanding satu paket besar (yg ada 10 paket kecil). Duit jimat, masa pun tak membazir. trust me....Habis membincangkan bab tisu.....kita masuk barang kedua iaitu hand sanitizer. benda ni agak penting bagi semua orang bukan sahaja pelajar tau.....sejak pelbagai wabak melanda negara, hand sanitizer adalah salah satu cara mengekalkan kebersihan diri. bila tangan kita bersih, kuman pun sikit. saya dengan kawan-kawan sentiasa bawa hand sanitizer ke mana-mana. kalau nak salam dengan pensyarah, kami pastikan tangan bersih dulu baru salam(kadang-kadang sampai terlepas pensyarah). sempat je kejar pensyarah tu.

Dulu hand sanitizer ni sangat tidak dititikberatkan, sampai ada pensyarah cakap, "saya lebih selesa kalu pelajar saya melatih diri menggunakan hand sanitizer,....". Banyak sangat pensyarah tu pesan dan bercerita akibat kalau tidak menjaga kebersihan diri. jadi, tak salah kalau anda membelanjakan sedikit dari duit perbelanjaan hari untuk kegunaan selama hampir sebulan. Hand sanitizer ni bukannya kena beli setiap hari, sekali beli boleh guna hampir tiga minggu. Jenama apa yang digunakan, itu tak penting. Yang penting dapat melindungi kamu dari kuman dan bakteria. betul tak??? Mungkin ada yang mengatakan, "nak buat apa hand sanitizer??? toilet ada, basuh je tangan kat situ...." tapi sedarkah anda??? Tidak semua tempat yang kita kunjungi ada tandas, dan tandasnya bersih serta

cukup kelegkapan (sabun). jadi ada baiknya kalau hand sanitizer sentiasa ada dalam beg kita. bukannya berat pun. buku besar-besar boleh je bawa, hand sanitizer yang kecil nak tumapang takkan tak boleh???? =)

hah!!! takkan la benda nie pun kena bawa jugak???? memang kena pun...sebagai langkah berjaga-jaga. Bukannya berat pun....boleh je letak kat poket beg. Malang tidak berbau! itu yang selalu kita dengarkan???

Bukan nak doakan untuk jadi perkara buruk tapi sediakan payung sebelum hujan itu adalah baik. Anda mungkin akan terlanggar bucu meja, atau kaki anda melecet akibat kasut baru yang ketat, pembalut luka nie berguna pada saat itu. Anda mungkin memandang rendah padanya ketika anda tidak perlu perkhidmatannya. Bila perlu tercari-cari!!! Daripada bertanyakan kawan yang belum pasti mempunyai pembalit luka, ada baiknya anda membawanya sendiri. anda juga berkemungkinan untuk membantu kawan yang memerlukannya. Anda menolong orang, pasti anda akan ditolong apabile anda kesempitan. Tolong-menolong adalah amalan yang amat digalakkan oleh agama. Barang seterusnya adalah body spray. Dek kerana panas matahari dan perjalanan dari hostel ke kuliah, kamu memerlukan sesuatu yang boleh menyegarkan kembali

diri anda. bila singgah kat kafeteria, anda mungkin berbau makanan. body spray boleh menolong menyelesaikan masalah ni. jangan pula bawa body spray yang kuat baunya. jangan beli botol besar, memadailah botol kecil yang senang dibawa keman-mana. Perasaan tidak selesa akan timbul apabila badan dah berbau, kan?? Bukan kita saja yang tak selesa, kawan kita disekeliling pun tak selesa. Mereka mungkin tidak khabarkan anda tentang ketidak selesaan itu. Cuba bayangkan anda di tempat mereka, apa agaknya anda rasa???? Bau pelik akan tercipta bila anda memakai body spray semasa anda sedang berpeluh. Cuba elakkan....pergi ke tandas lap sedikit kemudian semburkan body spray..... Ramai orang tak suka membawa body spray, termasuklah saya. jadi, saya akan belajar....

Ini adalah barang kelima yang saya baca. Wow, rupanya penting!!!! kamu tak dapat menduga alat penyaman udara dalam dewan kuliah. Sejam mungkin kamu mampu bertahan, kalau kuliah berterusan sehingga tiga jam??? mengigil kot. jadi bawa kardigan bersama. Ini boleh membantu melancarkan konsentrasi anda di dalam dewan kuliah. Kalau mengigil je, macam mana nak fokus??? Bagi perempuan, kejadian yang tak disangka mungkin akan berlaku. Anda boleh menggunakan kardigan untuk menutupnya. Tak de la nak malu sangat.....agak susah jugak nak praktikkan satu nie...tapi nanti  saya cuba sesuaikan diri. Bukan apa, kadang-kadang kelam kabut nak kejar pensyarah, tertinggal!!! 

being appreciate

Have you ever said to yourself or maybe to other, why I’m not appreciated or “please appreciate what I’ve done” ?? So far, I have asked myself several times which I can’t count how many times. Is it strange? Or maybe you feel like I’m not doing the work sincerely? It’s not like that, just ask yourselves have think about being appreciated? What is your answer? Yes, or maybe no. For sure everyone in this world wants to be appreciated. Appreciate don’t need to show like you give gifts or treat them meals, buy sweets or anything else you might think to do. Smile appreciatively is enough. Simple situation about being appreciated, my mum is a teacher and every year there is teacher’s day. Most of students including us like to buy presents for our teachers to thank them and to show that we appreciate all their works teaching us, right??? Have you ever thought if you are that teachers. What will you feel when your student appreciate you without giving presents? I’m sure you are happy being appreciated. When that day is coming, my mum keep saying “I am tired advising student to not give me gifts...it is wasting their money. Saving for furthering study is better”. I think most of our teachers thin like that. Look, people not waiting for your gifts to show your appreciation. Maybe a few of us like to receive presents but there is nothing wrong for that. You can give but always remember that appreciation don’t have to show by gifts.

Talking about being appreciated, I really hope that one day I will be appreciated. I’m not asking for presents, sweets, or party. Just being appreciated by your sincere smile, talk or maybe just saying hi, I don’t mind about that as long as you appreciate me. Not just me, you have to appreciate all the people around you even they are cleaners. Spread salam and smile when you meet them. They will happy for that. My friend, ana loves to do that. Every time she does that, I can see how sincere she is. Last but not least keep appreciating people even they are nothing to you.

teman.....

malam nie saya rase teramatlah sejuk....sejuk sangat(best sejuk2 nie)!!! Tetiba je teringat kat seorang teman, sebak sangat dan terase nak nangis dan cakap," do you understand me????" Tahan je la perasaan nie. entry kali nie agak private sikit. tak tahu nak cakap kat sape dah. kalau cakap pun, diaorang akan cakap "sabar je la". saya tahu patience is a virtue. saya nak belajar tapi teringat benda remeh nie, memang agak menyakitkan hati. Allah sedang uji la tue, kan?? So, the best policy is patience. Seorang teman yang diingati nie pernah hantar msj kat saya, "tarbiyyah Allah amat mahal....tidak semua kasih sayangNya terzahir melalui belaian...adakalaktegasan mampu mendidik kta lebih drpd kelembutan...Allah lebih memahamikita dr segala makhlukdidunia....justeru, menggadulah pdNya, setiap titisan airmata yg mengalir amat bernilai & berharga disisi Allah.cyg......". Andai diri itu berada dihadapan saya, ingin sekali mengatakan yang diri anda amatlah disayangi melebihi dari diri sendiri tapi adakah anda sedar?? Ingin sekali masa lalu tidak berlalu agar masih dapat berteman denganmu seperti dulu. hahaha, agak pelik sikit ayat saya kan?? tapi memang betul, kalaulah masa itu tak berlalu...eh tak baik tau cakap "kalau". itu saya belajar masa kecik-kecik dulu...memang tak baik. Apa yang diatur Allah adalah terbaik jadi tak payah nak cakap kalau, ok??? Teman nie susah nak

ditafsir. kita baik je dengan dia tetiba dia buat kita macam tunggul kayu (tak cakap, tak de perasaan), ada ke patut. Bila fikir geram jugak tapi masing-masing dah besar kan, pandai-pandailah fikir. dah la amik jurusan agama, tak kan tak tahu kot ajaran Islam ajar kita apa.....cintailah saudaramu lebih dari dirimu sendiri.....dan eratkanlah silaturrahim sesama umat. betul tak???? Islam tu mulai sangat, ajaran dia semua baik-baik. Even orang jahat dengan kita pun disuruh layan sebaik mungkin. Lagu maher zain, the choosen one inspirasi daripada kisah hidup Rasulullah.

walaupun jirannya bersikap agak kurang ajar dengannya, masih berhati mulia untuk menjenguk jirannya ketika jirannya sakit. Muliakan??? Kita macam tu tak??? Muhasabahlah diri(untuk diri saya dan anda). Rasulullah sedaya upaya menunjukkan contoh terbaik untuk menjadi ikutan tapi kita hargai tak susah payah baginda s.a.w???