Monday, February 28, 2011

hepi holiday

since a long time I didn't update my blog. I really miss to do that but I'm quite busy. Guess what I'm doing?? I'm busy watching movie, online, helping my parents with all the chores and so on. Believe me or not, I don't eat as much as I eat in hostel. That's mean, I can having my proper diet. having a long holiday, what are you going to do? Seriously it will make you bored. I keep thinking about what I'm going to do since I had my final examination but I still do not find the answers. I'm wishing all my friends out there, happy holiday and I really hope that you will have a meaningful holiday. There are many things you can do. My beloved lecturer advised us to do something that is meaningful for us in the future, for example take sewing class, cooking class or anything else you think might be worth in the future. She said that we can earn more money if we know to do several things instead of one thing only. We can't expect what's going to happened in ten years, so it is better for us to get prepared. If we don't get jobs we still can survive with what we have learn. So my little advice to me and all you, work hard to get a meaningful holiday. May Allah bless you and keep smiling.
let's learn how to make it!!!

Sunday, February 13, 2011


Exam fever is coming!!! Wish all the best and good luck to all my friends. Do all the best. To my group members, to have you all is such a big gift from Allah. When the semester was begun, we all felt so sad like there is no more hope but see! There is something He wants to show us. We get the truly friendship that we never find before. I love you all with all of my heart. You are like my sisters. Help me when I got difficulty. You even hear all my problems. Thanks for supporting me for the whole semester. Sorry to say I don’t be your best friend and I don’t help you as much as you are. You all teach me lots of things that I’ll never forget. You teach me to accept all the things that happened to me. You teach me not to sleep after dawn prayer. You teach me to spend time to go to talks. You teach me that I am lucky to have everything that others don’t. You also teach me that friendship is pure relationship. You teach me that there is not abnormal to not having boyfriend. To state all what you all teach me is very impossible because there is thousands and thousands of lessons. Allah’s will, I will never forget that. Thank Allah because know I realize why this happened to me. Everything happened for a reason. There are lots of things I realize. For sure, Allah has “programmed” our life strategically until there is no mistake. If you think that you have done mistakes, think it twice. 
take one each!!!!

Saturday, February 12, 2011


Last night, I have a group discussion with my friends. Suddenly one of them said, “nothing special happened in my life”. I got shocked but I’m not screaming. When I went back to my dormitory, I thought about those words. Is there nothing special in my life??? No, definitely not. To my friend, remember Allah has created us different from others so that we go through our lives happily. If you think that there are nothings special in your life, don’t be sad because you might not know what is special in your life. Frankly speaking, everything happened in our lives are special.
  • ·         You are special because there is someone who loves you more than I love you, He is our creator, Allah. You are special!!
  • ·         You have a very happy family. Others might not have it so you are special!!!
  • ·         You have brothers, sisters and friends who love you and appreciate you. Not all people are loved and respected so you are special.
  • ·         You are chosen by Allah to live in a peaceful country so this is special.
  • ·         Remember all the presents from Allah and you will say that everything happened in my life is special and you are special.
Maybe there is someone who disagrees with my opinion but for me special is universal. Anything can be special if you think that is special. Happy family, happy life and so on are special for me because I think not all the people in this world have them and they in that situation..home sweet home. This is the place to find happiness. If one doesn’t find it here, one doesn’t find it anywhere. See, you find you happiness and be grateful because you find it and you are special!!!
To my friends especially Minnie, I’m really grateful to have you as my friends. For me, you are special!!! Sorry for can’t answer your simple question, “am I special?” and stop saying “there is nothing special in my life”

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

kindness knows no man

So, today let us speak out about kindness. I’m not a kind one but I want to speak about that. For me kindness knows no man so try to be as kind as you can. When I gathered with my friends, they always say “I’m not beautiful”, seriously ladies like to talk about beauty. Women and beauty can’t be separated. My lovely friend says that we look very beautiful when we have a spiritual beauty. When I was a immature girl I think about what is spiritual beauty. My mum teach me that spiritual beauty you can’t pay to have that it will be in yourselves without you know you get it. That’s really wonderful!!! See, everything has planned strategically by our creator. So, even you have no money to go spa, you still beautiful. Wondering where did you get it??? That is reward for you for being kind to everyone. A bit of fragrance always clings to the hand that gives roses. Everyone loves fragrance, so keep gives “roses” then you will get that naturally.
If you do not know what kind of kindness you should do, our beloved Prophet Muhammad told us “do not belittle even the smallest act of kindness, even if it were no more than meeting your brother with a smiling and cheerful face”. Our prophet (peace be upon him) really loves us, he even teach us the smallest act of kindness. Smiling and cheerful face is a kindness, Islam is a simple religion and it is not complicated.  Be grateful for being born as Muslims. Back to our topic, kindness, I strongly agree if one can pay back the loan of gold, but ones dies forever in debt to those who are kind. Be kind to others and you will be rewarded by Allah.
“....O Allah’s Messenger! Is there a reward for us in serving the animals?” He said, “yes, there is a reward for serving any animate (living being).” Narrated by Al-Bukhari and Muslim. Living in hostel, there is cat dumping and I’m not satisfied with this situation. Based on this hadith, I need to be kind to animals. To render relief to the distressed and to help the oppressed make amends for great sins. Let us be kind to all people.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

respect others

Today I get mad with someone. Actually I myself, do not know why I get mad with that person. For sure, I’m mad!!! Ok, today I would like to write about respect. Wow, this word sound great to me! Are you expecting other to respect you? You might have your own answer because I have mine too. I really mad to people who do not respect others if the other are trying their best to respect them. Could you imagine how are you felt if someone did that to you? I know patience is the best way but I’m a normal one so my patience’s level has its own level. I wish I could have a very high level of patience. Seriously, I’m really mad with this person. Are crazy enough to do that thing to me????? Answer me!!!! Do you know how hard I’m trying to care of your feeling? It’s really hard until I get fed up, but I still remember the friendship that we build in the name of Allah. That’s why I’m still going strong until today. People out there, remember to respect others even you do not know who are they. Allah has promised to reward His servant if they do good dead. Respect others seem to be a very hard thing to apply in your life but it really easy to do and it will help your life going peacefully, trust me. Since I am living in hostel, there are lots of things related to respect others. If I think about having something that might cause somebody so I need to think twice. See, it is difficult but if you are in that condition you will think what will happen to you if others do that to you. So, it is simple when you think if you are in that situation.  Are you mad? Are you happy? Are you sad? Or are you angry? Think before you do something. You might think they are kind-hearted so don’t worry. Think twice because you might hurt their feelings and you do not know. Other’s feelings are really important. As student, you know what you should do. Relationship with our Creator and relationship among people are really need to care of. Think and you will know are you respected others?????
talk to my hand